nope, i'm not single.. i am so much in love and i do Thank Allah for allowing me to found the love of my life and enjoying it every seconds (of course there's always time we fight once a while)... back to the freemales.. i've known a bunch.. most are my close "bestest' friends.. some are families..
my closest cousin is going to be 36 next month.. the fact she's not dating any guy for the past ten years or so really worries her mum. her (the mum) phone bills were hike up lately as she's been calling every friends she knew to match-make her single daughter.. but my cousin, she doesn't care.. she's happy the way her life is.. perhaps, some times, though she didn't express it out, she might wish she could have some male-freind that can be a potential huuby for her.. but most of the time, she's just happy.. i think.. she can spend all the money she earns on expensive stuff.. she can have all the time in the world for her social acitivites with her friends.. she doesn't have to worry about kids' schools etc.. and when she need some loving feeling and to be in touch with kids, she always have my beloved sons to share the feelings.. she loves my sons very much....as a cousin, i want to see her falling in love, so that i knew someone can take care of her.. i want to see her to get married, so that we (the family) can have reason to spend money on clothings, souverniers etc.. i want to see her to have kids of her own and i bet she'll be a fantastic mother.. and, though i did not share this directly to her, i always pray for her to meet her jodoh.. but then again.. she wouldn't mind with her life, and she must have her own reason of choosing that life..i wouldn't mind staying freemale if i were her.
one of my bff is reaching her fantabalous-forty in two weeks time.. a single mother of a smart girl.. she is still looking for real man to love and to be in love.. got married and being fooled by love.. she has her own stories to tell and somehow she lost faith in love (with male species).. after what she's gone thru, i can't blame her for her strong arguments that "men are idiots and love sucks"! i will stop trying for love if i were her.
a friend of a friend went for a blind date that end up she was paying for the dinner.. imagine who will be paying for the rest of life if they decided to get married.. argghhh..scary thoughts! i would be single if i were her.
another girlfriend was in love with this guy who has left because his mother did not approve the girl.. just because she is not kelantanese.. and to that man, you know at the first place you should be amrried to your mother, why bother wasting other people's time? i would definitely proud to be single rather than dating this no-balls-son of this silly mother!
still, one bff of mine - she met boys, dated them, and always end up with "were we dating?" and the dating games ended before its even started.. knew her for the past twelve (thirteen?) years.. and shared her stories boys meet girls.. and if i were to be in her shoe, i will stop finding love as love keep telling lies to her... the good thing was, her love came when she was not even looking.. and she's getting married and i am so happy for her .. i must warn her man that he really needs to take good care of her..
what i'm trying to say is that.. yes.. now that valentine is just around the corner.. all those lovers out there just can't wait to celebrate the love (and you know this applies just to those who not married, yet, right? you should know, once you get married, the most you can do during valentine's is the sex, if time permits and if the kids decided to go to bed as early as midnight)...again, to all the single ladies out there.. i do envy the idea that you girls no need to worry if you are getting 'some' or not on valentines' night.. (ok, i must give credit to my hubby as we don't really celebrate valentines' even when we were dating.. but this year, he already arranged for us to go for nice dinner...) but then again, love is always there for you girls to cherished.. have fun and have a good valentines' day girls... being single would definitely the ultimate decision when all the men that were listed in the date-list were ego-maniac, male-chauvinist bastards.. somehow, i must agree with the statement "all the good men are taken".. and one of them is mine, so hands off ladies... but again, if it were meant to be, the love is there waiting for you.. as a good friend, please know i always pray for your happiness.. that is the keyword-the reason whether you choose to be free-males or not.
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